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Teenage Meltdown Tips

podcast Feb 20, 2024

This is Going to Be FUN: the Podcast

Episode 87: Teenage Meltdown Tips

with Jen Tate

Episode Summary:

Teenage Meltdown Tips

Your teen's big emotions can leave you feeling like you can't do anything right, but this episode will crack the code on teenage meltdowns for good. Discover the science behind teenage tantrums and how you might be making things worse without meaning to.

Tune in to the end to uncover practical strategies you can try next time your teen has a meltdown. These 4 simple tips will help you diffuse the situation and help your teen learn to navigate their big emotions. 

These strategies are not just about managing the moment, but about building a deeper understanding and connection that might decrease the number of teenage meltdowns you encounter. 

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What you will learn in this episode

Understanding Teenage Meltdowns

The teenage brain is under construction and that causes teens to experience more intense emotions. Learn the difference between the prefrontal cortex and the lower brain and how the dynamic between these brain areas explains why teens can seem irrational during emotional outbursts. After listening you will understand why your teen might seem fine one minute and has a complete meltdown the next. 

 

Strategies for Managing Big Emotions

When teens are overwhelmed by emotions, their ability to think logically is temporarily offline. Learn 4 simple strategies to help you keep things from escalating and foster a supportive environment where your teen feels safe and understood.

 

What to Say (and Not Say) When Your Teen is Melting Down

This episode discusses how to effectively communicate with your teen during emotional moments. You will learn why you can never seem to get through to them when emotions are high. Discover what to say in the moment (and what not to say) to acknowledge their feelings and open the door to more learning and better solutions. 

"No matter what you do in the moment to try and teach them or correct their behavior or look for solutions or solve their problem with them, it won't work."

 

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