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Mom Grief

podcast Apr 16, 2024

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Episode 95: Mom Grief

with Jen Tate

Episode Summary:

Mom Grief

You know what mom guilt is, but do you know what Mom Grief is? As your teen changes, evolves and grows up it is normal to experience grief as they transition through different stages. With each new stage, your teen outgrows an earlier version of themselves - usually one you have learned to love and cherish!

It is only natural that you would have to grieve that loss, but so often we try to shrug it off and wonder what is wrong with us. If we can learn how to embrace it instead, we can recognize grief as a normal, even necessary, part of parenting. 

Discover the overlooked times when you might experience mom grief and learn the 3 simple steps for using grief as a tool to move you forward in your parenting journey. 

 

 

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What you will learn in this episode

What is Mom Grief?

Mom grief is a normal part of parenting teens. Learn about the subtle, yet impactful, grief that accompanies each stage of a child's development—from the end of elementary school days to the last days of their high school experience. It is normal to feel excitement and grief all at the same time as we lose what was once familiar and cherished and move into the unknown. 

"Grief is the emotion that we feel when we lose someone or something that we love...It's only natural that we would experience grief as part of our parenting journey."

 

Mourning the Life You Won't Have

Sometimes our teen's experiences impact them, and you, and your family in significant ways. When things don't turn out the way you had hoped or when your teen's experience isn't what you had wanted for them, you might feel some grief about the loss of the life you had planned for. It is ok - and even important - to allow yourself to experience that grief so it can move you forward. 

"Grief doesn't mean you're not excited for the next phase. It just means that you have lost something that you cared about."

 

How to Process Grief

Learn the difference between regret and grief and how to move forward when you experience loss. Have compassion for where you have been, where you are right now and where you are headed by acknowledging your grief, allowing the grief to process in your body and learning from it. 

"The only way through grief is to allow it."

 

If you enjoyed this episode you should check out: The Key to Emotional Regulation for Teens

 

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