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Parenting Lessons from Dad

podcast Jun 20, 2023

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Episode 52: Lessons From Dad

 

  

Episode Summary:

Parenting Lessons from Dad

Good dads are at the heart of raising emotionally healthy teens.

I have been blessed with amazing father figures in my life and I have learned so much from them. Today I’m sharing 5 lessons I have learned from my favorite fathers and how they are helping me as I am parenting my teens.

These 5 tips are simple ideas you can apply today to improve your relationship with your teen. But, I also hope they will inspire you to think about the parenting lessons you can learn from the father figures in YOUR life.

 

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In honor of amazing fathers everywhere, I am sharing the lessons I have learned about parenting from 4 of my favorite fathers. 

Turn Ordinary Moments into Traditions

When I was little, every Saturday was “Daddy-daughter day”. My dad would take me out to breakfast at “my restaurant” (JB’s because those were my initials). We would fill our tummies at the breakfast buffet while hanging out together, just the two of us. 

Then we would run errands or stop at a yard sale on the way home. 

It was nothing extraordinary, but it turned the simple everyday moment into something I looked forward to all week. My dad taught me that you can make everyday stuff feel magical by just giving it a name and turning it into a tradition. 

Working Side-by-Side Builds Skills and Connection

My father-in-law is the ultimate example of teaching by working together. When we were first married, he was always willing to come and help with whatever project my husband was working on. 

His help always led to new skills and a completed project. When my husband started his Doctorate program, we were in the middle of building a garage. My father-in-law came and worked side-by-side with me for weeks so we could get it finished. 

While he gave his time willingly, I was always most impressed by his patience as he taught me what I needed to know and let me try and try again until I figured it out. 

Sure, I learned about roofing and siding and using power tools, but we also had conversations about all sorts of things. Those teaching moments built our relationship as much as they build a garage. 

Show Appreciation and Praise for the Everyday Stuff

My step-dad joined our family after I was already married with a family of my own. 

Every time he eats something I cook, he always showers me with praise and appreciation. He goes on and on about how delicious the food was and what a great cook I am.

Not only that, but he is always pointing out the great things my kids do and complimenting my parenting, deal-finding and hosting. He always shows appreciation for the stuff nobody else really notices…the mundane every-day stuff I just do because it needs to be done…and it makes me feel like a million bucks. 

When I apply this with my own kids, I notice the same. A little appreciation and recognition for the mundane everyday stuff goes a long way. 

A Trip Down Memory Lane is Always Worth It

I am convinced that my husband is the best dad there is, and all my kids agree. 

But, we always tease him because he loves a good AirPlay slideshow. If friends or family are over, you better believe that at some point, my hubby is going to have some recent pictures or videos playing on the tv screen. 

And while we all roll our eyes and sometimes turn the tv off when it gets excessive, we all secretly love it. 

Remembering the good times and the sweet times and the funny times brings everyone together. It starts the best conversations and creates connection. 

Be the Fun Parent!

The final lesson is also from my husband, because I learn so much from him and thought you needed a double dose of his awesomeness. 

I consider myself a pretty fun person, but at our house, there is no question that Dad is the fun parent. No matter what else is happening, he always makes time for fun with the kids. 

He’ll jump in the pool with his clothes on to make them laugh, stay up until the middle of the night with them to finish a puzzle or drop everything to take them to the dollar store for BINGO prizes. 

His example reminds me every day, that sometimes you just have to stop trying to get all the things done and make time for what matters most: enjoying the people you love. 

What lessons have you learned from the fathers in your life?

I am so thankful for these 4 awesome fathers in my life and I have learned so much from each of them. I bet you have amazing fathers in your life too. Take some time this week to think about a lesson from the fathers in your life that could help you in your parenting. 

 

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