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Should You Trust Your Teen?

podcast Aug 30, 2022

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Episode 10: Teens and Trust

  

 

Episode Summary:

Should You Trust Your Teenager?

Trust can be challenging in any relationship, but trusting your teenager can be especially hard.

In this episode you will learn the three elements of trust and discover how they might be impacting your relationship with your teen.

You will discover the fascinating truth about how your teen's brain development impacts trust and what to do if they aren't very trustworthy.

This episode offers a new approach to trusting your teen and hope for a better relationship with them - even if trust has been broken.

 

 

What you will learn in this episode:

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Understanding Trust

Trust is more than just a simple concept; it's about "confident hope" and believing in the reliability and truthfulness of someone. In the context of parenting teens, trust involves three critical elements: our expectations of their actions, belief in their ability, and reliability or consistency in their behavior.

Check Your Expectations for Your Teen

Examine where your expectations for your teen's behavior come from. Are they based on their commitments, past actions, or simply your desires? Understanding the source of your expectations is key to building trust effectively.

Understanding Your Teen's Brain

Teenagers' brains are still developing, and that means they may not be able to do what you want them to when it comes to trust. Find out why your teen may logically know what's best, but struggle to act accordingly.

Teens aren't Known for Their Reliability or Consistency

Teens are known for their inconsistency due to emotional fluctuations and hormonal changes. Recognize that expecting perfect consistency may lead to frustration. Find out how your can help them develop these crucial skills.

 

"You don't have to trust your teen to have a great relationship with them. Manage your expectations, guide and support them as they build their strength and abilities."