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Testing the Limits

podcast Mar 19, 2024

This is Going to Be FUN: the Podcast

Episode 91: Is Your Teen Testing the Limits?

with Jen Tate

Episode Summary:

Teen Testing The Limits?

Is your teen always testing the limits and pushing boundaries? You are not alone! This is a common challenge during the teen yers and can leave you frustrated and ready to throw in the towel. 

This episode will help you strike the balance between allowing your teen the independence they are craving and enforcing limits for their safety and well-being. 

We explore why teens are constantly testing boundaries and how consistency, patience and understanding can save your sanity! Learn 3 secrets to making sure your teen learns the important stuff, even in the face of defiance. 

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What you will learn in this episode

 

Set Clear Expectations

Every rule you make is a rule you have to be willing to enforce every.single.time. Set yourself up for succes by limiting your expectations to the 2 or 3 things that are most important to you and let the rest go...at least for now. 

 

Keep Your Cool

As crazy as it may seem, the more frustrated you get, the more persistent your teen will be in challenging you. When your teen is testing the limits, it is crucial that you keep your cool. Learn the essential tool to help you do this in my free Processing Emotions mini-class

 

Give Lots of Freedom

Teenagers need freedom just as much as they need boundaries. Create a safe space where you can give your teen lots of freedom to exercise their independence. Striking the balance between the two can be challenging, because it is constantly changing and evolving, but it is worth the effort. 

 

"Teenagers are seeking freedom and independence... sometimes they value that freedom and independence more than they value their comfort and safety."

 

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