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The Most Underused Parenting Skill

podcast Jan 02, 2024

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Episode 80: The Most Underused Parenting Skill

with Jen Tate

 

Episode Summary:

The Most Underused Parenting Skill

"How do I get my teenager to....?" This is the most common question I get from parents!

And while I wish I could tell you the magic words to say or the magic consequence that will keep them out of danger or the magic reward that will motivate them, there is no magic solution!

BUT, there is one thing that I find has the MOST power in getting your teen to do whatever it is you want them to do. It is the most effective - yet underused - parenting strategy I have found.

Find out what it is and how you can use it to get more cooperation from your teen! And the best part is - it is so much more enjoyable and fulfilling to parent when this is your focus!  

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What you will learn in this episode

 There is no Magical Parenting Solution

As much as I wish I could give you the perfect words to say to get your teen to do what you want - they don't exist. As much as I wish I could tell you what consequence will get your teen to stop breaking your rules - it doesn't exist. And as much as I wish I could tell you the perfect reward system that will motivate your teen - it also doesn't exist. Every child requires a different approach, but when you apply what you learn in this episode, you will know exactly how to meet your teen right where they are. 

 

Parenting is a Skill Set You Have To Build

It takes effort, practice and time to improve your parenting skills. Just like it takes consistent effort to build muscles, it takes consistent effort to build your parenting skills. Find how to focus your efforts on the most important parenting skills and build them over the coming year. 

"Parenting is not just about knowing the information. It is the skill set that has to be practiced." 

 

The Power of Relationship

There is so much power in the relationship you have with your teen - for better or for worse! Your relationship with your teen sets the stage for everything else, so what kind of relationship are you building? Learn the approach I recommend and how it can make your experience as a parent more enjoyable and more rewarding.

"We need to invest in relationships that feel good to them. So they want to serve. So they want to contribute. So they want to give back."

  

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