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Why You Can't Connect With Your Teen

podcast Jul 26, 2022

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Episode 5: Why You Aren't Connecting With Your Teen

 

Episode Summary:

Why You Can't Connect With Your Teen

Are you struggling to connect with your teen? Despite your best intentions, creating a strong bond with your adolescent can be challenging.

In this episode, we'll discuss the essential foundation for connecting with your teen. If you want  your efforts to be effectove, you have to get your mindset in the right place before you start trying things.

Discover why your role as a parent is not about controlling your child's actions, and why it's crucial to focus on who you want to be as a parent.

Learn the secret to creating a deep connection with your teen and how changing your perspective can transform your relationship with them. 

What you will learn in this episode:

A Close Parent-Teen Relationship Leads to Happier Teens

Research shows that:

  • Kids who feel connected to their family experience less anxiety and depression.
  • They are more empathetic, trusting and cooperative with others which leads to them having better relationships throughout their entire lives.
  • Teens who feel connected to their family are less likely to engage in risky or violent behaviors.
  • Teens with good relationships with their parents are more resilient and get better grades.
  • They are more confident and have higher self-esteem

 

Here's what you have to do to provide your teen these advantages:

Get Clear About Your Job As A Parent

Your job as a parent is not about controlling your child's actions, grades, or choices. Learn why measuring your success as a parent should be based on how well you align your actions with your values, rather than trying to shape your teen into a specific image.

Think About Your Teen Differently

The thoughts and judgments you have about your teen can affect your connection. Learn how shifting your perspective from criticism to curiosity can help you truly understand your teen and build a more authentic and loving relationship with them.

Give Your Teen Unconditional Love and Acceptance

Unconditional love, acceptance, and understanding are the key to a strong bond with your teen. Learn how to let go of the need to change or control them so you can create a space for genuine connection and open communication.

 

 "Your teen’s behavior, grades, attitude or appearance do not determine your success or failure as a parent."

 

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